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hollister; this Copyblogger article, take me as just graduated from NLP practitioner perspective, it is very special and important! please all come to my blog to see reproduced classmates are serious reading, otherwise, inappropriate expressions show loving compassion, it is easy to cause two damage! to the deceased rest in peace, may the living saved alive people, these children, and hard to face the future! please respect their noble humanity! To help them recover their strength, help them self-reliance. don't give them excessive arranged, excessive mercy, to rely blindly. "when you and the children together, ten do not, to"  ,
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converse pas cher; today, "Wenchuan Earthquake Orphan Fund - love to Chengdu in action" team member of the first batch,
stylo mont blanc, in today's conference, invited psychological experts summed up the psychological crisis intervention services, the principles to be followed, as well as to avoid the misunderstanding, the principle of universal for all willing to pay for care,
abercrombie france, caring community mass, in the face of affected children advice, here and share - when you and the children together, ten do not, we not do: 1, don't cheat (such as child's parents have died, or cheat him); 2, don't promise that he can't do (I'll help you find your parents); 3, don't force him to recall or speak (don't say "it doesn't matter, you say"); 4, don't rudely "intervention" his emotions, such as "don't cry", "be brave", "cry!" And so on, he has made their own emotional way; 5, do not show pity on him, need to be sympathetic,
converse; 6, don't try to replace his parents, don't say "never mind, we all love you", let the children feel betrayed their parents; 7, don't give, likely cause dependence,
abercrombie, angry or feel is charity, will put their anger onto others; 8, do not think that he is the Savior, do not think that only you can help him, let him find the rehabilitation method, starting each person the ability to self healing; 9, do not cause their guilt (survivor syndrome -- why I the students are all dead), don't say "you are very lucky!" "You have much better than the others!" 10, don't take what he experienced things full of curiosity, even if we love this child, we will be unable to control his curiosity, which is two degrees damage; what to do: 1, if necessary and possible, large body contact: for children, this stage, in this context lower (only shock, acute response stage -- in the event, in a few seconds or a few hours to months), do not hesitate to physical contact. But if the child has refused, not reluctantly. 2,
abercrombie france, first with the daily greeting language,
holliste, build trust, open talk about possibilities; simple,
hermes, popular, and even can be very normal way, "you cold not cold ah, you eat anything"; 3, gifts: chocolate, brushes and paper; nutritional supplement; building trust before, in order to give care. 4, if there is time, also allowed, to give children was the manner of expression: special channels of communication, painting, to tell a fairy tale the way 5, farewell to say if you need my help, or you can come to me, I was sad. Can provide a unified telephone or address. (the comings and goings of the visit, causing the child kept abandoned, isolated traumatic this log from QQ mailbox! The new way is convenient to write Qzone, details in the > >,
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