Best Hosting Company for me (need advice)
 

I have a vbulletin forum since 2003. With more than 5000 users. I am hosting my website now with Ipower.com. I lost my database recently I think because of them. Before I upload my backup I want to change with best hosting company for me. And I am concern about the following:-
1- Automatic backup for my SQL database.
2- 'max_user_connections' it was 50000 with Ipower.com
3- Provides telnet or ssh access since this will make it much easier to backup and restore your database if I ever need to.
4- Requires a web server that includes relatively recent versions of PHP and MySQL.
5- A very dependable costumer support specially for SQL database and vbulletin forums.

thank you in advance for your advice.